Feel closer to the person you love

Yes. GetOurTime is free to download from the App Store, and you can start playing right away. Your 3-day free trial gives you full access to all 1,500+ questions, with more added regularly and no upfront payment. If you decide it’s not for you, you can simply cancel before the trial ends.

After your 3-day free trial ends, your selected plan starts automatically. If GetOurTime isn’t for you, cancel anytime before the trial ends and you won’t be charged.

Yes, anytime. Straight from the app’s Settings or your iPhone Settings, no hoops and no hidden steps. If you cancel during the free trial, you won’t be charged at all.

Yes. GetOurTime supports Apple Family Sharing, so one subscription covers everyone in your Family Sharing group. Turn it on in your iPhone Settings under your Apple Account, and your partner can use GetOurTime on their own phone at no extra cost.

No. You can skip it and start playing straight away. Signing up with Apple or Google is optional, and it’s what lets you save the questions you love and keep them in sync across devices. One tap if you ever want it.

No. One phone is all you need to play together.

Not yet. GetOurTime is on iPhone for now, with Android on the way.

1,500+ questions across 16 decks, from light and easy to deep and intimate. You choose the mood that fits the moment. The questions are shaped by research on closeness and self-disclosure, but you won’t feel like you’re in a study. The science stays behind the scenes. What you get is a conversation you wouldn’t have started on your own.

Absolutely. Your privacy matters to us, and we never sell your personal data. We only collect what’s needed to make GetOurTime work and, if you sign in, keep your progress in sync across devices. You can always find the full details in our Privacy Policy.

Yes. You only have an account if you chose to create one. Sign-up is optional, so if you skipped it there’s nothing to delete. If you did sign in, go to Settings, then Delete Account. It removes your account and the data attached to it, and it can’t be undone. No emails to write, no waiting on us to action it.

That’s more common than you’d think, and it usually lasts about one question. If you frame it at all, frame it as a game. Not as an app, and definitely not as something your relationship needs. Better still, skip the framing: open it, read one out loud, and answer it yourself first. Most people who “aren’t into this” get interested the moment they hear an answer they weren’t expecting.

This is where it tends to land hardest. The deeper questions regularly surface things partners never knew about each other, even after a decade together. People change. What mattered five years ago isn’t what matters now, and most couples never stop to ask. GetOurTime is a reason to.

It’s built for couples and for people dating. That’s who the questions are written for, and you choose which one fits when you start. Plenty of people play it with a close friend or a sibling too. Nothing stops you, the questions just won’t be aimed at you.

Choose a deck that fits the moment and start swiping through the cards. Pick a question you like, read it out loud, and take turns answering - or answer together, however feels natural. There are no rules, no timer, and no wrong way to play. Just pick a card and start talking.

As long as you want. Some couples play for a few minutes, others for hours. There’s no fixed session length. You set the pace. The app remembers where you left off, so you can always pick up later.

Sure. One person can open the app and read the questions while you’re on a video call. It works just as naturally when you’re miles apart. And when a call isn’t happening, send a question instead. Distance doesn’t have to mean “how was your day”.

Choose Dating, pick a lighter deck, and start with a question that feels natural. Take turns answering and see where the conversation goes. No right or wrong answers. No pressure to force a deeper conversation. Just an easy way to move beyond the usual first-date questions and get to know each other a little better.

People do. Our questions are written by humans, with input from relationship therapists and psychologists. No AI-generated questions. No filler.

Each one is meant to give you something worth talking about, from playful and unexpected to honest and a little deeper. No therapy homework. No obvious answers. Just questions that help you discover something new about each other.

Not at all. Start light and go deeper when it feels right. Choose a deck that matches the moment, whether you’re just getting to know each other or ready for something more.

Yes. The After Dark deck includes 18+ questions about attraction, intimacy, and getting more comfortable talking about those things together. It’s completely optional. Choose the decks that feel right for you and go as deep as you want.

Not really. There’s plenty to get through, and we keep adding new questions and decks over time.

Yes. Regular, intentional conversations are one of the most research-backed ways to maintain emotional intimacy over time. They help couples stay curious about each other and make space for things that might not come up naturally.

GetOurTime gives you an easy, low-pressure way to start those conversations and talk about things that actually matter, without making it feel like couples therapy homework.

GetOurTime starts with you and your relationship stage. Tell us a little about your relationship and what you’re looking for, and we create a personalized deck to get you started.

Then explore 1,500+ more questions across different moods and topics, whenever you want something new to talk about. Because knowing someone doesn’t mean you know everything about them. There’s always more to discover.

When you start, we ask a few things: whether you’re dating or together, how long it’s been, and what you’re hoping to get out of it. That gives you a deck built around your answers, with a name you pick. It’s where you start, not all you get. Every other deck is there whenever you want a different mood.

It puts one question on your Home Screen every day, so there’s a reason to talk without opening anything. It’s free, and it stays free forever. To add it, press and hold your Home Screen, tap the plus in the corner, and search for GetOurTime. With a subscription you can also choose how often it changes.

Yes. Share any question card through your favorite apps. iMessage, TikTok, Instagram, WhatsApp, Snapchat… or basically anywhere you already talk.

Yes. Sign in and any card you love gets saved to your Favorites deck, always within easy reach. It’s a nice way to build your own little collection of questions that meant something - and revisit them whenever you want.

If you opt in to notifications, we’ll let you know when something new is added. No reminders, no “you haven’t played in a while” messages, and no unnecessary notifications. Just a heads-up when there’s something new.

No. Once you’re set up, you can play completely offline, on a plane, at a mountain cabin, or anywhere without a signal. Your cards are stored on your device automatically.