Question 1

How do you play GetOurTime?

Accepted Answer

Choose a deck that matches your mood, and start swiping through cards. One person reads the question out loud - then you both answer, or take turns answering each one separately. No rules, no timer, no wrong way to play. Just pick a card and go.

Question 2

Do both people need the app?

Accepted Answer

No. One phone is enough. One person holds the phone, reads the card, and the conversation starts from there. GetOurTime gives you a reason to put the mindless scrolling down - and actually talk to the person in front of you.

Question 3

How long does a session take?

Accepted Answer

As long as you want. Some people play for a few minutes, others for hours. There's no fixed session length - you set the pace. The app remembers where you left off, so you can always pick up later.

Question 4

Can you play GetOurTime over video call or long distance?

Accepted Answer

Yes. One person opens the app and reads the questions over a video call - it works exactly the same way at a distance. A lot of couples use it as a regular ritual on FaceTime or WhatsApp. Distance doesn't have to mean shallow conversations.

Question 5

Who creates the questions in GetOurTime?

Accepted Answer

Every question is carefully curated and reviewed with input from relationship therapists and psychologists - but the goal was never to make something clinical. The questions are designed to feel like something a really good friend would ask: the one you didn't know you needed until it was right in front of you. Nothing that sounds like a job interview. Nothing with an obvious answer. Just questions that create real connection.

Question 6

Will it feel too intense for someone I just met?

Accepted Answer

Not if you start with a lighter deck. Some decks - like Safe Place - are built for easy, low-pressure conversations, while others go deeper. You stay in control by choosing the deck that matches the mood you're in. Start light. Go deeper when it feels right.

Question 7

How do you use GetOurTime on a first date?

Accepted Answer

Set your mode to Dating, pick a lighter deck, and start there. Read a question, answer honestly, let your date respond. No score, no elimination, no awkward silences. Just a real reason to say something that actually matters and get to know each other beyond the usual first-date script.

Question 8

Are there explicit or adult questions?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The After Dark deck contains mature content rated 18+ and is designed to explore deeper physical attraction and intimacy. It's completely opt-in - you always control which decks you play.

Question 9

How intense do the questions get?

Accepted Answer

It depends on the deck. Each deck has its own mood - some, like Safe Place, stay light and easy; others, like After Dark (18+), go intimate and intense. You set the tone by choosing the deck, so you're always in control of how deep things go.

Question 10

Are the questions based on science?

Accepted Answer

Yes. The structure draws from psychological research on closeness, attachment, and emotional intimacy - including frameworks that show how self-disclosure and mutual vulnerability build lasting connection. The science is in the bones of the app. What you feel on the surface is just a good conversation.

Question 11

What makes GetOurTime different from other conversation card game apps?

Accepted Answer

Most conversation card games hand you a list and call it done. GetOurTime is a full app experience - 1,500+ questions organized by mood across 16 decks, with swipe and scroll game modes, therapist-reviewed questions, offline access, and a deck built around your relationship stage. Every question has been manually reviewed to make sure nothing repeats or asks the same thing twice with different words. It's the only deep talk card game app designed for the full range of closeness - from first date to long-term partner.

Question 12

Will we eventually run out of questions?

Accepted Answer

With 1,500+ unique questions across 16 decks, most people never come close to running out. New questions and decks are added regularly, and premium members get access to fresh content as soon as it drops.

Question 13

Can I save the questions I like most?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Any card you love gets saved to your Favorites deck, always within easy reach. It's a nice way to build your own little collection of questions that meant something - and revisit them whenever you want.

Question 14

Can I share a question with someone?

Accepted Answer

Of course. You can send any question directly through WhatsApp, iMessage, Instagram, or any app on your phone. Sometimes the best conversation starts with a single question dropped into a chat.

Question 15

How do I know when new decks or questions drop?

Accepted Answer

If you opt in to notifications, we'll send you one when something new is added - and that's the only reason we'll ever send you a notification. No reminders, no nudges, no "you haven't played in a while." Just the new stuff, when it arrives, if you want to know.

Question 16

Do I need Wi-Fi to play?

Accepted Answer

Premium members can play completely offline - on a plane, at a mountain cabin, or anywhere without signal. All 1,500+ cards are stored on your device automatically when you go premium.

Question 17

Is GetOurTime free to download?

Accepted Answer

Yes - free to download on the App Store (Google Play Store coming soon). To explore everything, start the 3-day free trial: unlimited access to all 1,500+ questions with no upfront payment. On day two, we'll remind you the trial is ending - so if it's not for you, you have time to cancel before anything is charged. We mean that. We'd rather you cancel than subscribe to something you don't love.

Question 18

What does premium unlock?

Accepted Answer

Premium unlocks the full library of 1,500+ questions, all 16 decks including the 18+ After Dark deck, offline mode so you can play anywhere without Wi-Fi, and completely unlimited access. Once you go premium, all cards are stored on your device automatically - no signal needed.

Question 19

How much does GetOurTime premium cost?

Accepted Answer

Premium is $4.99/month, $29.99/year, or a one-time $39.99 for Lifetime access. The annual plan works out to about $2.50 a month - less than a single coffee - and there's a 3-day free trial. Annual is the best value if you plan to use GetOurTime as a regular ritual; Lifetime is best if you'd rather pay once and never think about it again.

Question 20

Can I cancel anytime?

Accepted Answer

Yes, anytime - through your iPhone Settings, no hoops to jump through. If you cancel during the 3-day trial, you're not charged. The conversations you've had don't disappear just because the subscription does.

Question 21

Is GetOurTime only for romantic couples?

Accepted Answer

GetOurTime is a conversation card game for couples and people dating. Set your mode to Partner or Dating, and the questions adapt to fit where you are - so you're always playing ones that fit, never ones that feel awkward.

Question 22

Is this good for long-term couples who already know each other well?

Accepted Answer

Especially for them. The deeper questions consistently surface things that partners - even after years together - never knew about each other. A lot of long-term couples use GetOurTime as a weekly ritual to stay curious and genuinely connected, not just coexisting.

Question 23

Can GetOurTime help improve communication in a relationship?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Regular, intentional conversation is one of the most research-backed ways to maintain emotional intimacy over time. GetOurTime gives you a low-pressure structure to talk about things that actually matter - without it ever feeling like couples therapy homework.

Question 24

Is my data private?

Accepted Answer

Yes. GetOurTime does not sell your data - full stop. You sign in with Apple or Google, and we collect only what's needed to run the app and sync your progress. If you want the full details, they're at getourtime.app/privacy.

Question 25

Do I need to create an account?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You sign in with Apple or Google - it takes a second, and it keeps your favorites and progress synced across devices. We kept sign-in simple on purpose: no forms, no passwords, just one tap.

GetOurTime – Conversation Questions for Couples and People Dating

The conversations you've been meaning to have.

Real questions.Real answers.Real connection.

Real questions.Real answers.Real connection.

Every deck openssomething different.

After Dark

Back on Track

Back Then

Break the Routine

Day Dreams

Destination: Unknown

Didn't See That Coming

Feel Closer

Glad It's You

Good Trouble

Into You

Open Book

Ride or Die

Safe Place

The Fun Part

Untold Stories

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